Is there a right way to chose a new sexual partner?

The right time is different for everyone! Some people use the 3 date rule, some wait for marriage and some wait fot exclusivity or exchanging STD test results

Many of us have not followed any of these rules and decided to follow our heart and our loins when it came to hopping in the sheets with someone new! Let's go over some emotional boundaries when it comes to sex.

Trust

Getting to know some one is a process. Trust with a new partners makes us feel more emotionally safe. Sex does come with some responsibility, so building trust before having sex can help us feel supported in our most intimate and vulnerable state.

Self assurance

Are you comfortable telling someone what you like and do not like sexually? Are you at the point where you are afraid your kinks or physical needs might turn someone off or make them run? If so this could be a sign you are not ready for the relationship to get physical.

Emotional Intimacy

Sex does bond us with people chemically which can sometimes create a false sense of intimacy. What does that mean? It’s harder to see red flags once you find out he has the magic stick! Waiting for the emotional intimacy

Knowing what you want and need is the most important part of a sexual experience. Feeling like you are not being taken care of, unloved or unsatisfied can happen, but with time, trust, and self assurance you can have the sex life of your dreams!

p.s if you’re just looking to get off on a hook up- some of these rules should still apply! STD test, and self assurance should not go by the wayside if you want to have amazing sex.